If I was asked to write about someone who works at Fontbonne and the relationship that I’ve fostered during my time here at Fontbonne so far… Well I would have no problem narrowing down my choices because I would immediately choose my sister. My own sister works at Fontbonne University as a graduate admissions counselor. She is my one and only sister, which makes this even better because I am glad I do not have to pick between multiple siblings. My sister, Ann, and I have known each other well since I was born, since I am the youngest of the family. We shared a room for several years though I can barely remember when we switched rooms and split apart. Seems so long ago. I know I would steal her clothes, go in her room when I was not supposed to, those things that a younger sibling should not do but sadly follow through on anyway when they know better.
I want to fast forward to about three years ago; I think that is about how many years ago it was that she moved out of the house, although I know I may be wrong. Anyways, I really have fallen in love with the type of relationship I have made with my sister since she moved out. I remember before she moved out I was nervous that I would not talk to her as much as well as see her anymore. But I had a feeling also that that would not happen between the two of us. Since I started at Fontbonne University almost two years ago, we have talked more, seen each other more and just enjoyed each other’s time more. Now I will admit that she was not working at Fontbonne University when I was admitted as a freshman, though began shortly after. I find myself going to her office just to say hello multiple times a week, at least recently I know. I tell her about my day, such as classes going on, stressful situations with friends or family members and so on. I see her as my best friend as well as my sister. I love how I can talk to her about Fontbonne issues, advice for when talking to teachers, and even happy moments such as accomplishments. Last summer, when I found out I could not really pursue a future career in my last major of study, I went to my sister asking for ideas on what to switch my major to. She provided me with several possible ideas as well as hope that I will find a new major. Something I will love and not be as insecure about. We had discussions on what I valued most and had deep interests in, which in the end was helping people. In the end we were able to find a new major for me to try out and really I am so glad to have my sister on campus at Fontbonne, sharing memories together as well as creating new ones each day.
This summer is my last summer break of my undergrad and I’m feeling both anxious and excited.
I will be working full time at my job, while still finding time to relax and spend time with friends and family. I’m looking forward to quality time with friends and family because during the last month of school, I’ve hardly had time to take a breather, let alone devote enough attention to loved ones. I guess that comes with the package deal of being nearly done with undergrad. At least I’m on the home stretch!
This summer one thing I have planned is to visit my boyfriend’s mother and sister in Raleigh, North Carolina. I’ve only driven through North Carolina so I can’t wait to see what the city is like. Vacations are not only fun in the moment, but they really make you appreciate home once you come back. Illinois can get a little boring in the summer, needless to say.
One goal I have for summer is to practice bike riding more. I recently learned how to ride a bike last year. A childhood bicycle accident traumatized me, and before I knew it I was an adult who was super embarrassed to get help riding a bike. It would be a great achievement if I could feel more confident on a bike this summer.
Good luck to all the seniors graduating this semester!
Have a great summer, everyone!
I realize that I am kind of late for Spring Break plans, but it is never too late for Summer 2015 plans. Honestly, I have already been planning like my entire summer schedule even though the semester is not even over. Though sadly I have signed up for classes during the summer, which is never bad to do to not get out of the routine with classes when in college. What I cannot wait for this summer is honestly, more time with my family, exploring the city without having to worry about missing class (I have class only one day a week so I really don’t need to worry about missing class when taking adventures), laying out in the grass with my dog, and especially having the time to spend time with my boyfriend. I am not the kind of one to really talk about my boyfriend with others, all sappy and such, but being away from someone who is special in your life for extended periods of time can really take a toll on a person. But really, I cannot wait to explore the city more, just learning more about the city that I live in I think is important because that way, I really learn about my own hometown, feeling like I am a part of it. Such examples to explore could be City Garden, the famous St. Louis Arch, the Botanical Gardens, the Zoo, the Chess Hall of Fame, the History Museum, the Art Museum, the Muny, and more. I can admit that I have made my own board on Pinterest dedicated to St. Louis adventures, just to plan and get excited for summer and adventures. Additionally I cannot wait to go and visit family members out of state, ROAD TRIP! Really, I urge for people to take a trip, planned or unplanned, bring along friends and explore a part of the big world around you. Like really, the fun of just even planning sounds amazing. Summer 2015, coming in May, just a few short weeks away…..!
Nothing shapes you more than the people around you. Every person that has influenced your life was there for a reason and college isn’t different. When I first came to college I had a lot of awesome people around me. However, forging a bond with other first years really helped me get used the change of college.
My group of friends that I met this year are all sorts of busy with school and work. Saying that, we found time for friends-mas. Friends-mas was a Christmas celebration before we went home for actual Christmas with our families. Being away during the season can be hard, but friends-mas was the answer. We visited the zoo, explored St. Louis, and much more together.
We have supported each other through the change of college. I have met some awesome people at Fontbonne but nothing is better than actually relating to someone. The people I’ve met here helped make Fontbonne home.